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Jason struggling to accept people

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"Ah don't give me that crap, they're just lazy" Jason said. "If they left their damned cell phones at home they'd be able to concentrate."

Jason is a black and white sort of guy. If a scene doesn't conform to what he thinks, he instantly dismisses it, and frankly anybody associated with it. Sadly forJason most people are far too polite to let him see he's offended them so he doesn't realise the cost of this behaviour.

To be able to teach a wider range of workers a better way, Jason first has to accept their current behaviour, then he will be able to influence change.

If he doesn't accept what is, Jason can only set up an adversarial situation. His team can only ever respond by being 'bigger' than Jason and assuming a leadership role, or by being defensive. Either way it doesn't serve Jason particularly well in his business. Understanding this is the key to Jason's long term self motivation.

For the complete story, told by Donald Jessep, business coach, listen to the audio by clicking in the yellow text in the box above.

Track 6/9 of the Motivating Myself series

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In the Motivate Myself series;                       Shipping rates

1. The Deeper Cause - ... employee to understand the cause of an issue to a deeper level so they are insired to change
2. The Myth of the Night Owl - Early in the morning is when we set decide to be effective and productive
3. Powerful Pauses - Questions become powerful if we are relaxed about leaving tension in the silence that follows
4. Being and Doing - Completing the 'To Do' list is only fulfilling if we can also place a tick beside the way we intended to 'Be'
5. The 10 70 20 Rule - A framework for being inspired, organised, productive, fun, for ever learning and at peace
6. Grey is OK - A mind game for accepting so we can maximise our influence towards a better situation
7. The Personal Escalation Plan - The process for gaining the attention of influential people to get an idea implimented
8. The Goals and Causes - How goals without clarity of a bigger cause is only fleetingly motivating at best. What is a cause?
9. Asking for Help - Kevin who wanted to chicken out when an opportunity he's worked on for for many yeasr presents itself
   

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